For me...I caught my boyfriend of a year cheating on me...I held it together and got him help, got him a new place to live, got him a therapist, got him some support at church, even made sure his job stayed stable...while making good grades in college. I was there when he called me crying in misery. I was there when he felt angry at himself and hurt.
I was there through it all.
I didn't fall apart or give up on him once.
It's been a year...we're together still...and now...I'm starting to crumble and fall apart.
Nope. The easiest thing in the world is making toasts. Even my cat can do it and she's an idiot.
P.S.: Sorry for my nonsense, I drank a cup of randomness this morning. But seriously giving up can be a pretty clever decisision sometimes. If the donkey never gives up to chase after this damned carrot in front of his nose, he will starve. Just saying.